The experiences of people we care about often deeply affect us. It’s natural that as we come to terms with our parents aging, we begin to really think about our own aging process. Unfortunately, sometimes it takes the negative experiences of working through the issues we outlined in the first article in this series, Aging Parents, Aging Us: Helping Parents As They Age, to motivate us to take action in the planning of our own long-term care and end of life affairs.
The first step is to simulate the type of conversations you held with your parents and have that same conversation with yourself. What are the possibilities and expectations you have for your own old age? Consider your vision for how you wish to age and how you want to address your end-of-life issues before you execute any actions in your estate plan or insurance coverages. If you have a partner, you should work through your own wishes independently, then schedule time to have a conversation together. We suggest women outline their personal wishes first to ensure they maintain some say in these very important personal decisions.
Planning for your long-term care
We find that working with aging parents also tends to bring to the forefront of your planning the discussion of long-term care insurance for yourself and your spouse or partner. The question of when to start planning is a common one. Whether you decide to pay for any potential long-term care needs from your retirement savings or to purchase long-term care insurance, you should start the process when you’re in your 50s. The older you are, the greater risk you run of not having enough time to save or of becoming uninsurable.
Some of the things to consider if you are beginning to assess your own need for long-term care insurance include:
These considerations are important because recent statistics published by AARP in their Long-Term Support and Services Fact Sheet indicate that 52 percent of people who turn 65 today will develop some form of severe disability requiring long-term care support. And the average lifetime cost of long-term care in retirement tops $250,000. That figure derives from the fact that many retirement communities charge annual fees in excess of $100,000 with Alzheimers care running even higher. Cost of care varies by state and level of services provided, in addition to the level of demand for a particular facility. Because women live longer and have higher rates of disability than men, they are even more likely to need assistance in their home or another form of long-term care.
Your estate plan is more than who gets what:
Once you have a vision for your old age and desired legacy, begin to review your current estate plan in light of these goals. We find many individuals or couples who have a plan in place inevitably find their documents may be out-of-date, especially if the plan has not been updated in the last five years. To confirm that your existing plan will execute your intentions, review these questions:
If you don’t yet have an estate plan, getting one should be a top priority. Even if you’re not Prince or Amy Winehouse, both notoriously dying with wealth yet no will, this should be a high priority in your planning. Most financial advisors or estate planning attorneys are experienced at working with you to understand your wishes then creating a plan that reflects them. There is some preparation you’ll need to do before executing a plan. First, you’ll need to articulate your total level of wealth so having a Net Worth Statement will come in handy. A list of intended heirs and charitable organization names is also useful as is a Divorce Decree if you’ve ever been divorced. If you have minor children, you’ll need to specify potential guardians who would act in your absence and determine whether those same individuals will manage money for your children or whether that duty should fall to someone else.
We can’t say this enough—review your beneficiaries annually or when something in your life changes, like getting a divorce or having another child or grandchild. Particularly in the case of death or divorce, making sure these designations reflect current wishes is critical as this is what ultimately directs the inheritance of retirement accounts and insurance policies at your time of death.
Planning for aging requires careful consideration of many aspects of your financial plan. We encourage investors of all ages to consider how their retirement lifestyle and legacy plans could be disrupted by a long-term care need. Prudent planning and establishing a safety net through savings or risk sharing through insurance can help ease the difficult transition into old age and the health crises that often arise in the later stages of life. Being prepared also may alleviate the fear many women bring with them into old age so they can be more confident in the financial security of their senior years.
Shawn: Now you hear all kinds of deals about leasing cars, how can you negotiate a better deal if you want to lease?
Nina: Okay, well many people don't realize that they can actually negotiate the sticker price on a leased car in the same way that you would do that if you're buying a car. And since when you lease -- when you're, you know, your lease payments basically cover the depreciation, the difference between the sales price and the residual value. So it's definitely in your best interest to try to reduce that sales price as much as possible because then you'll pay you know, smaller dollars over the life of the lease. Make sure you pay attention to the down payment at the lease signing. And so here's an example, you might see an ad that says you know, lease payment is only 1.99 a month and that sounds like a great deal for thirty six months. The catch is, is that it might require a $3,600 down payment. So, if you amortize the down payment, then actually that 1.99 special, becomes 2.99. So, you really have to kind of look at total costs.
And then lastly, dealerships use the term, money or lease factor, when they're calculating your financing costs and a lease factor is not the same as an interest rate. So, you have to make sure the dealer converts that lease factor into a comparable interest rate so you know what your financing charges are.
Shawn: At the end of the day, does one method wind up being more expensive more often than the other, or can we tell that?
Nina: You know what, it really depends on how long, if you're going to hold the car for a long time, you're better off buying. But if you know, and if you're not, if you just really enjoy driving and you want to have a new car, then go ahead and lease. I mean, there's pros and cons to both, to be honest with you, it's not one size fits all.
Shawn: Alright Nina, great. Happy Thanksgiving to you. Alright, Nina Mitchell is with The Colony Group, for more go to wtop.com and search Her Wealth.
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